Thursday, August 30, 2018

If You Want To Be Good At Something

If you want to be good at something, learn from three groups of people. 

Learn from those who have already accomplished what you want to do. They can show you how to do it.

Learn from people who aren’t very good at what you want to be able to do. From them you can learn about mistakes and pitfalls that you’ll want to avoid.

Finally, learn what you can from people who possess some knowledge in the area but who nevertheless have not accomplished much. These people can teach you a great deal about how to waste your time.


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The Worst Moments Of Your Life

The worst moments of your life unfold when you aren’t given a choice, you aren’t given a chance, or when you weren’t given the truth.


Coming Up Short

I went to an automated banking machine yesterday to withdraw two hundred dollars. I put in my card, entered my PIN, and followed the prompts. The machine made an unexpectedly brief sound and started flashing. I reached inside and pulled out a single twenty-dollar bill.

My first thought that the machine must have malfunctioned. I worried that it had withdrawn the full $200 from my balance while only giving me twenty bucks.

I took a quick look at the little paper receipt that the machine dutifully offered after closing it’s money door. Thankfully, the machine had not made a mistake. I had. The entire translation was for twenty dollars; I had entered the wrong number of zeros.

I goofed, and I came up short, an apt metaphor for this entire week.


The Pitchman’s Paradox

I’m not an actor, but I play one on TV.


Tuesday, August 28, 2018

A Stark Lesson In Career Planning

Mr. Trump seems to be living proof that if you’re not quite up to the demands of a challenging job, you’re probably better off not applying. Your family and friends may thank you, as well, for not dragging them through an embarrassing and potentially hazardous situation.


The Staggering Death Toll of Hurricane Maria

The last time three thousand Americans were killed in a single event, our government went to war in two counties, consolidated its investigative and law enforcement power, changed our laws dramatically, and set up a secret prison system. But when three thousand American citizens from Puerto Rico were killed by a massive hurricane, the government barely lifted a finger.

Monday, August 27, 2018

New York Minute 99 - Rumpled Suit

The man was in his early sixties, I’ll guess, caucasian, with a head of thick gray hair that was long overdue for a trim. He sat in a rumpled suit next to a sliding door on the subway. Despite the wrinkled, somewhat ill-fitting appearance of his clothing, he came across as educated and well-mannered. Something gave me the impression that he was an attorney, not the fancy, high-priced, take your company public type, but more like a public defender, a man who made a modest living by helping those that could not afford their own representation.

On his lap, he balanced a stack of eight or so brown expandable folders. The rumpled man opened one of the folders and pulled out several sheets of white paper stapled together at the corner. Between double-spaced lines of typed text, the man added hand-written notes with a pen.

Was this a case file, I wondered? Were these papers critical to someone’s life and future? Was the fate of not one but at least eight human beings perched there loosely upon this one man’s lap, balance atop his rumpled pants, as he took his daily ride to the courthouse? If so, what if someone came along and stole one or more of the expandable folders? Were there copies at least of the important documents that they contained?

The remarks that the man was now writing so calmly between the lines of printed text, would these words be critical to the outcome of the day’s proceedings, a day that to this fellow and his peers would seem like any other day, but for a defendant, for any of his clients, might end up being one of the most momentous days of their lives?

We continued to ride along on the subway until I reached the stop near my office. Everyone has to get to work somehow.


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A Better Version Of Me

In my mind 

I see myself 

Performing all manner of 

Impressive things 

Beautifully 

And effortlessly 

With grace and inspiration 

In the harsh light of reality 

I’m nowhere close 

To this ideal 

But I work on it 

Day after day 

I struggle on 

Month after month 

To make it real 

Or move a little closer 

At least 

To the substance of my dreams 

To develop  

A better version of me 

That I’ve foreseen 

And hope one day to be 



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Every Vote Matters

Maybe American democracy needed a wake up call. Perhaps this current scourge of rampant disinformation, bitter partisan tribalism, and unlimited financial influence was something that the country needed in order to refocus its policy priorities. 

Maybe a rollback of the progressive reforms from the New Deal and Civil Rights eras will be a blessing in disguise. Maybe when workers lose their rights, when retirees are penniless, when businesses and factories are permitted to operate without safety regulations, when open land is strip mined, when air and water pollution rise to mid-20th-Century levels, when voter suppression is the law of the land, when immigrants are forced to live in ghettos, when communities of color are openly oppressed, when women are injured in black market abortions, and when a generation of young men is drafted and shipped off to bleed in an unjust war, maybe that’s when the American electorate will realize that policy decisions cannot be left to chance or entrusted to the whims of the powerful and the connected. Maybe that’s when Americans will realize once again that every single vote matters.


Friday, August 24, 2018

Vegan Millennial Sanders Supporters

A vegan, a millennial, and a Bernie Sanders supporter walk into a bar. The BEST course of action is to ...

A. Leave without paying the tab. 

B. Drink so much that you won’t remember any of their self-righteous bullshit. 

C. Burn down the bar. 

D. Pray for a massive invasion by hostile, cavity-probing aliens. 

E. All of the above.


Thursday, August 23, 2018

Dance This Moment

Take her in your arms  
Dance this moment wantonly 
The song will not last 


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Tuesday, August 21, 2018

Things As They Are

All my life 

I’ve been polite 

It didn’t get me far 

I yearn to take more chances now 

Express things as they are 


I may use words  

That sound absurd

Or leave you feeling shocked 

But all our thoughts 

And feelings

Should be heard 

Before they’re lost 



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Boldness

Boldness is what life rewards 
Caution it ignores 
Be prepared 
And be audacious 
To reap what risk affords


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Monday, August 20, 2018

Ten Ways To A Brighter Day

Get some rest. It always helps.


Put your stress on the back burner. Worry about things tomorrow. Procrastinate.


Break the pattern. Try something that you don’t normally do. You don’t need a reason. Just do it.


Take time for a walk. Stretch. Get some light exercise.


Talk with people who care. Avoid those that don’t.


Do something positive, something that helps others, something that moves you ahead.


Go outside. Observe. Watch the animals. Smell a flower.


Surprise someone in a pleasant way. Brightening their day will help to brighten yours.


Reward yourself with something soothing, delicious, or stimulating.


Have fun. Laugh out loud. Find the humor in all things.



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The Gifts Of Life

It’s tempting to focus on our challenges and to stress over the things that go wrong in our lives, but it’s important to acknowledge and appreciate that many things go right, as well.

For example, if you are reading this, appreciate the face that you know how to read. That’s not insignificant. Someone took the time to teach you that critically important skill. You put in the effort to learn and practice it, and as a result, a world of ideas and information are available to you.

There are other positive things that we can infer from the fact that you are reading this post. The first is that you can see. Sight is a precious gift that grants us the ability to appreciate our beautiful world in all of its splendor. You also have internet access, something that many people around that world are as yet unable to enjoy. Recognize the fact that you are in a country where internet connection is both widely available and not tightly restricted. Not everyone has such access. 

You are also alive. Count that as a blessing. The world is full of hazards and diseases. You have successfully survived these dangers; your peers have not all been as fortunate.

Consider as well why you were born in the first place. You had to beat numerous odds just to exist. Your parents had to meet, presumably when they weren’t attached to someone else. They had to feel some level of attraction for each other, and they had to get along, at least for a while, at least long enough to create you. Think about the odds against two people coming together at just the right time. Now extrapolate those odds to your parents’ parents, and their parents, and so on. 

The sheer existence of any one person is miraculous. A lot of things had to go right for you to be born and live in this world. Don’t get too upset when things go wrong in this precious life of yours. Life is complex. Among the inconveniences and the disappointments that we experience, a lot of wonderful things happen, things that we often take for granted. The more that you focus on the precious gifts that exist within your life, the less the inconveniences will matter.


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Sunday, August 19, 2018

Be Honest With Yourself

Be honest with yourself. Realize that in the anonymity of your own mind and the loving comfort of your own heart, it is safe to process thoughts that you would not dare share with others. If you have the courage to face what bothers you, it can help to relieve your stress in those areas and move toward a more comfortable and peaceful life.

Of you have been wrong in some instance, harsh in an interaction with another person, or if you have not measured up to your own standards at some point in your life, you can admit those things to yourself. No one is watching. No one is listening. You’re safe.

The first step toward resolving a problem or improving a bad situation or behavior is to admit that it exists. Have the courage to take that step in your own heart and mind. See where it leads. Note what solutions may present themselves as you think about it. Experience the relief that direct acknowledgement of a troubling issue can bring. Admission is an important step toward growth and healing. Take that step with certainty.

Thursday, August 16, 2018

Punished for Criticizing the President

The MAN who LED the mission to FIND and CAPTURE bin Laden was PUNISHED today for CRITICIZING a THIN-SKINNED POLITICIAN. 

If that does not CONCERN you, it SHOULD.

It is far WORSE than a PETTY and VINDICTIVE act.

It is an ABUSE of POWER.

It VIOLATES the CONSTITUTION.

It sets a DANGEROUS PRECEDENT for DEMOCRACY.

Wednesday, August 15, 2018

One Worthwhile Action

One worthwhile action 
One positive change today 
That much I can do 


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Tuesday, August 14, 2018

Impressions of Florida

Bright sun

White sand

Blue water 

Warm waves


Palm trees

Fishing piers 

Sand bars

Stingrays


Jet skis

Speed boats

Open beaches

No lifeguards


Walking, biking,

Fishing, boating,

Swimming, wading,

Reading, sunbathing


Slim bodies 

Gym bodies 

Round bodies

Couch bodies


Young bodies 

Aging bodies 

Lots of nice 

Bikini bodies 


Sultry nights

Refreshing breeze

Weak reception 

Daily storms


Green foliage

Plentiful water 

Channels, rivers,

Bays and ponds


Polite folks 

Casual clothes 

Impressive stores 

Expansive shores 


Tourists, locals,

Singles, couples,

Families with kids 

Retirees


Mostly White

Working class

No hipster beards 

Just the mustache


Flip flops 

Cover ups 

Board shorts 

Smith&Wesson shirts 


Infrequent signs

Light on rules

Everybody

Plays it cool


Fruit trees 

Horse farms 

Air conditioning 

Fast cars


Nicer weather

In the summer 

Than you 

Might believe 


Yes, it’s hot 

Day and night 

And yes, the storms 

Are furious 

But put yourself at ease

There’s always a nice breeze 


All in all 

A lovely place 

For any length of stay 

Spend time here 

And you will wish 

That you’ll be back one day



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Sunday, August 12, 2018

The Elephant In The Room

There’s a reason why we don’t talk about the elephant in the room. If we hurt the elephant’s feelings, it’s likely to storm off in a huff or get angry and knock us into a wall. Either way, we’ll pay an uncomfortable price.

Sometimes, it’s better to let the elephant roam untethered in blissful, self-assumed anonymity. Let it believe that it’s invisible until it realizes that it isn’t. At that point, it might feel like sitting down for a talk.


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Saturday, August 11, 2018

Too Many Things On My Mind

I have too many things 
On my mind
I need to slow down 
And take care of them 
One at a time


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Appetizer and Main Course

I prefer to eat my salad and/or appetizer at the same time as my main course. I switch back and forth between plates to blend flavors, textures, and temperature. It’s amazing how many people in the restaurant business struggle to fulfill this rather simple request.

Friday, August 10, 2018

Tantrum Exhibition

When a three-year-old throws a temper tantrum, and all attempts to negotiate with the child have failed and they have to be carried kicking and screaming out of the store/swimming pool/restaurant/etc., why is it that everyone within earshot stops what they’re doing to watch the drama unfold? Are there people out there who do not understand that young children occasionally act out in angry, full-throated protest against the wishes of their parents? 

I have the same question about people who stop what they’re doing to watch a fire truck speeding down the street with its lights flashing. Do people not realize that firemen occasionally have to go somewhere in a big hurry?

Thursday, August 9, 2018

Approaching Storm

Distant thunder rumbles 

Lightning shoots from huge gray clouds 

Take cover 

It’s not safe here 

We have to get inside



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Beach Day

Sunshine on a pristine beach 

Rolling waves smooth as they reach 

Sandpipers and tidal pools 

Sunscreen, hats, and water shoes 

Beach umbrellas and folding chairs 

Sitting in the warm salt air 


Children playing in the sand

Sunset walks, hand in hand 

Gentle breeze with sweeping views 

The weather is our only news 

Today, I find these words mean more 

Than they ever have before 



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Wednesday, August 8, 2018

Government Incompetence and the Migrant Crisis

Ask a group of people to solve a pressing problem, and although they may experience disagreements and a few false starts in their attempts to solve it, eventually, they will come up with a workable solution. Ask government to solve a problem, and watch as it wastes decades and countless fortunes on responses that not only fail to fix the central problem adequately, but which exacerbate the issue by creating new problems that didn’t exist before. 


Drug policy is a good example. In an effort to prevent illegal drugs from harming citizens, the illegal drug trade spawned violent gangs and cartels. As the gangs and cartels became more violent, the police increased their firepower and adopted military tactics. The gangs and cartels escalated their firepower to match. Citizens are gunned down on the streets, and in countries where the drugs are sourced and trafficked, police, judges, and politicians are routinely assassinated. This secondary problem of extreme violence did not exist before drug use was criminalized.


Why does this happen? Why does government come up with solutions that are worse than the original problem. There are three reasons. First, unlike the team of people who solved the hypothetical problem in the first paragraph, government is expected to please everyone all the time. If some vocal minority complains loudly every time someone suggests decriminalizing drugs, for instance, decriminalization will be seen as a politically toxic policy. Mothers and widows will offer tearful testimony about the children and spouses that they lost to drugs, and politicians that run on a platform of decriminalizing drugs for the purpose of reducing violent crime will be branded as heartless supporters of criminals. And the drug war will rage on unabated for another decade.


The second reason is that government is beholden to special interest groups. The private prison industry does not long for lower crime. Nor does the firearm industry. Since drug incarceration impacts poorer communities disproportionately, and since in many jurisdictions, convicted felons cannot vote, those who champion voting restrictions would prefer to continue imprisoning people for selling small amounts of narcotics.


The third problem is that it takes a lot of effort to get governments to work together for the common good. Nationalism, regional interests, and long-standing grudges present roadblocks to work toward the common good. How likely is it, for instance, for the United States and Mexico to work on a comprehensive drug violence reduction campaign when the President of the United States routinely berates our neighbor to the south?


I fear that the migrant/immigration problem is being handled with typical governmental incompetence. The ideal solution would be for the world to work together to address the issues that encourage migrants to leave their own countries - violence in Central America, war in Syria, unrest in Libya, religious extremism in East Africa, for example. Instead of establishing quotas and turning away boatloads of desperate refugees, restore the conditions by which they can prosper in their homelands.


But that won’t happen, of course. Nationalists will continue to promote anti-immigrant sentiment. Countries will bicker with each other about quotas. Immigrant populations will be marginalized and face discrimination. All because the right course of action is rarely politically popular. 



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It’s All Uphill From Here

Sometimes, when you run in an unfamiliar location and it feels tough when you first start out, you reason to yourself, “It’s okay. This must be a slight upgrade. It will be easier on the way back when I’m running downhill.” As you return to the starting point, you realize that you actually started on a downgrade.


Stretching Forward

Stretching forward my 
Sweat is dripping ev’rywhere 
So glad for this run


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Tuesday, August 7, 2018

White Sand Beach

Evening on a white sand beach 
Dramatic clouds roll in 
From my chair I watch the waves 
And diving pelicans  


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Hopes and Gifts

Hopes that I wished for dearly 
Never came to be 
While gifts I could not have imagined 
Presented themselves to me 


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Wednesday, August 1, 2018

The Great Unforced Error

Baseball has concept of an unforced error, a mistake that a player makes, not when they are faced with a challenging or unexpected situation, but in the normal course of the game when they are executing a play that they should be able to complete successfully with relative ease. The player can’t blame this mistake on anyone else. Whether it was due to physical strain, bad judgment, or a lapse in concentration, the responsibility for committing the error is theirs and theirs alone.

As I watch reports from the tax evasion trial of President Trump’s one-time campaign manager Paul Manafort, I wonder whether we are witnessing one of the great unforced errors in modern political history.

If Mr. Trump had not fired FBI Director James Comey, the Attorney General would not have appointed a special counsel. It was Special Counsel Robert Mueller’s investigation that dug up Mr. Manafort’s history of financial dealings with powerful Ukrainian businessmen and led to his indictment on numerous counts of financial crime. If Mr. Trump had not fired Director Comey, Mr. Manafort might be spending the summer at his house in the Hamptons, free to enjoy his $20,000 watches and his $13,000 ostrich jacket.

And in all seriousness, who actually wears an ostrich jacket?

The firing of Director Comey was not the Trump administration’s and/or candidacy’s only unforced error, but it was the one that raised a red flag so glaring, so egregious, that the Department of Justice had no choice but to open an investigation.

Other errors were made. It would have been to the administration’s benefit if they had needed President Obama’s warning about hiring General Flynn, another target of Mr. Mueller’s investigation. And they might have done themselves a big favor by declining the meeting with Russians who claimed to have unflattering information about Mrs. Clinton. But the real step-in-the-dog-dirt moment for this administration was the abrupt and inexplicable firing of Director Comey. That was Humpty Dumpty’s first crack, and it was easily avoidable.


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Random Thoughts - 20250507

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