The Difference Between Dating and Marriage
DATING
She doesn’t want you to fix the problem.
She wants you to understand how the problem makes her feel.
She wants you to empathize with what she’s going through.
She wants to know that she can count on your emotional support while she works through this.
MARRIAGE
She wants you to fix the problem.
She’s been asking you for months, and you still haven’t fixed it.
“We’re not going to hire someone. It’s a waste of money. You need to fix it.”
“I should have married Frank,” she thinks to herself. “He would have had it fixed by now.”
“Maybe I should call Frank.”
She doesn’t want you to fix the problem.
She wants you to understand how the problem makes her feel.
She wants you to empathize with what she’s going through.
She wants to know that she can count on your emotional support while she works through this.
MARRIAGE
She wants you to fix the problem.
She’s been asking you for months, and you still haven’t fixed it.
“We’re not going to hire someone. It’s a waste of money. You need to fix it.”
“I should have married Frank,” she thinks to herself. “He would have had it fixed by now.”
“Maybe I should call Frank.”
