Thursday, December 31, 2020

Be Happy

If you want to be happy, contribute something that helps someone, or learn to do something that you couldn’t do a month ago.


If you want to be happier still, contribute a little more, or learn to do that new skill a little better.


If you want to stay happy, keep learning. Keep growing. Keep finding new ways to contribute. Keep finding new ways to use your time and your talent to help and inspire others.


Happiness doesn’t come from another person smiling back at you. It comes from feeling useful and inspired and powerful. It comes from knowing that something you did made a smile possible.



Hard To Imagine

Hard to imagine

That we really just lived through

A year like this one



Happy Day 366!

Happy Day 366!

Right now, it should be

Twenty Twenty-One

But Infamous 2020

Had to stick around for one

Last day of Leap Year fun!

Happy New Year, Everyone!



Wednesday, December 30, 2020

Favorite Quotations

Favorite Quotations


“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” - Oscar Wilde


“Always do what is right. It will gratify half of mankind and astound the other.” - Mark Twain


“Everybody loves a compliment.” - Abraham Lincoln


“You have to work every day.” - Richard Avedon


“It has to sound as though the composer had no other option.” - Aaron Copeland


“When writing, don’t stop for anything unless you have to go to the bathroom, and then wait until the last possible minute.” - Stephen King


“Put first things first.” - Stephen Covey


“Thinking is the hardest work there is.” - Henry Ford


“If you want a better answer, ask a better question.” - Tony Robbins


“Great is the power of steady misrepresentation.” - Charles Darwin


“All men are created equal.” - Declaration of Independence (US)


“As you have done unto the least of these, you have done unto me.” - Jesus of Nazareth


“Never give in.” - Winston Churchill


“You don’t need their approval.” - Wayne Dyer


“All progress depends on the unreasonable man.” - George Bernard Shaw


“A man is only as big as what makes him angry.” - Unknown


“There is a tide in the affairs of men which, taken at the flood, leads on to fortune; Omitted, all the voyage of their life is bound in shallows and in miseries.” - William Shakespeare


“When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.” - Helen Keller


“Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.” - Arthur Ashe


“As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.” - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe


“The secret of getting ahead is getting started.” - Mark Twain



Tuesday, December 29, 2020

Who’s Crazy Now?

Could it be that they’re all sane and I’m the one who’s crazy?
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Nah!


GPS

GPS technology has become a handy asset for travelers. Enter a destination and a starting point, and an app will map out a route and guide you there in real time. If you run into obstacles, the app will update the route and get you to where you’re going.


The process won’t work until you enter the start and end points. It can’t provide any meaningful information until it knows where you are and where you want to go. The process can handle setbacks as it moves along, but it can’t get started without your input.


In college, I studied computer algorithms that solve challenging math problems. One algorithm required the user to guess the answer before it could proceed.


If the correct answer is 12, but the user guesses 8, the program will determine that 8 is not right and will try other values until it finds the right one. It will try a smaller value, like 6, and a larger value like 10 and determine how accurate each guess is.


In this case, since 10 is closer to the correct answer of 12 than the original guess of 8, and since 6 is farther away from the right answer, the algorithm is smart enough to know that the right answer is higher than 8, not lower. It keeps trying until it gets on or close to the right answer.


Enough about computers. Let’s talk about something more practical.


Life is full of ambiguity. We don’t always know the best path to take in order to reach a goal. We might not even know whether the goal itself is right for us. We can ask others for guidance, but ultimately, we have to take chances based on our own values and preferences.


There are two main choices: guess the right path and take some steps to see where they take is, or stay in one place and wait for more information. Only one of those choices leads to something new.


Information doesn’t always come to us. We learn as we go, as we do, as we try, and especially as we fail.


The GPS app can’t correct our route when we’re sitting still. Once we’re moving, it can help guide us past almost any obstacle even if we make some wrong turns.



The Worst

I could write accounts

Of the worst people I’ve met

But why honor them?



Destiny Is Unintentional

Everything I’ve done

Has led to where I am now

I regret nothing



The Passage Of Time

A day goes by quickly, a year even faster.



Sunday, December 27, 2020

Random Thoughts - 20201227

Random Thoughts - 20201227


Peace On Earth depends on Goodwill Toward Men. If you can’t muster the Goodwill, you’ll never have lasting Peace.


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It’s easier to pick up a bad habit than a bad cold, and it lasts longer.


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If you always go for broke, get comfortable with being broke.


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Don’t do what they expect from you

Do what you do

Be totally you


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I’m at my best when I wing it. I wing it best when I’m prepared.



Switch

It’s a strange and awkward phenomenon, I find, when people are warm and caring when they want something from you, but cold and evasive when they decide that you are of no use to them. I often fall for their opportunistic expressions of warmth because they confuse me. I was raised to be kind to everyone unless they are irretrievably obnoxious, and even then to be polite and respectful. I don’t understand people who can switch kindness on and off again like a light in the garage. I’m wired differently.



Thursday, December 24, 2020

Tidying Up

That moment when you toss something that you haven’t used in a long time and then soon discover that you need it.


Trump Family Holiday Card 2020

Trump Family Holiday Card 2020


If you’re a wealthy White criminal, Merry Christmas!


If you’re Black and poor, Happy Execution Day!


If you’re in the military and were expecting a pay raise, Happy Veto!


If you were expecting a relief check, unemployment benefits, or eviction protection, better luck next year!


If you like shutdowns, terrific! We’ll be shutting down the entire government soon.


If you’re Russia, keep hacking! We won’t say anything.


If you’re a deadly virus, infect everybody!


If you believe in democracy or the rule of law, don’t get too comfortable.


And remember, as Melania always says, “Nobody gives a f**k about Christmas.”



To Improve

To improve, fix what’s broken.



Wednesday, December 23, 2020

Finding The Words

Please don’t spend precious time

Searching for a rhyme 

Just say what you want to say 

Let it flow out

In an effortless way

In the form that it wants to be said


Don’t hoard an idea 

In the dark of your head

Clutching it tightly 

While you fuss politely

Over form 

Or fret about how

It might be received


It’s your idea

Your thought

Your desire

A delicious ripe sample

Or your inner desire

It doesn’t

Have to meet 

Anyone’s standards 

But yours


Ideas will rust

And flake into dust 

If you let them get stuck 

In the muck

Of your thoughts 

Debating

Deciding

Undoing

Colliding

Worrying about the right words 


The flow from your heart 

To your hand

Must be quick

Not stylish or slick

Not clever

(Not ever!)

Just let your thoughts rip

Be bold and be swift

The flow of ideas

Must be smooth 

The writer 

Has no time to loose



Monday, December 21, 2020

Job Satisfaction

The best places to work have a collegial culture. Everyone helps each other. Every team member’s skills and strengths are utilized and appreciated. The mission is clear, and everyone understands its importance and commits their efforts to achieving it.


In second-tier workplaces, employees are valued and appreciated, but there is less interaction between team members. The work is done in silos, whether out of necessarily or custom. Individual contributions are recognized and respected, but there is less of a sense of camaraderie or teamwork in the organization.


The next level down is a workplace with a territorial or combative culture. Team members don’t share information openly, either because management discourages doing so, or because  they view secrecy as a competitive advantage. Team members routinely criticize each other’s performance in bids to outdo their colleagues in the eyes of management or important customers. Job satisfaction is tied to perceptions of who is winning and getting ahead.


The worst places to work, where job satisfaction is abysmal, are organizations led by domineering and unreasonable supervisors. This situation can occur locally with in a larger, well-respected organization where most employees may feel that the company treats them well. Concurrently, those who work for tyrannical managers feel isolated, helpless, and demoralized.


This can be an inescapable nightmare for employees. Most companies give tremendous power to supervisors for evaluation of employee performance. Employees have few if any options to evaluate the performance of their managers. The manager’s account of events will precedence in the eyes of upper management. (Bad managers are often good at fooling their superiors into believing that they are thoughtful and productive.) The manager will be informed of the complaint, which will only create more tension. If the supervisor can convince HR and upper management that the employee is a “troublemaker,” dismissal will be likely. Even if the employee is retained, their performance history will be compromised, all but negating any hope for advancement. 




Thursday, December 17, 2020

Exciting Writing

If you’re bored when you write it, they’ll be bored when they read it. Make it snappy or tell a better story.



Dietary Decisions

I have always had a sensitive digestive system. At one point in my life, I used to consume two bottles of Pepto-Bismol every three days in order to manage uncomfortable systems. The floor of my car was littered with empty pink bottles.


I discovered through trial and error that onions were causing the problem. I tried eliminating certain foods from my diet, and when I got to onions, my stomach settled down. I now do my best to avoid them.


I still need to manage my diet carefully. It doesn’t take much to send my stomach into a frenzy.


A few months ago, I started having chronic issue again. There were days when I had to cancel planned outdoor activities because I didn’t want to stray too far from a bathroom.


I began to eliminate certain foods from my diet again, hoping that sooner or later, I would figure out what was triggering the problem.


First, I stopped eating potato chips. Chips are one of my guilty pleasures, but I know that they’re not good for me.


Next, I cut out all nuts and peanuts. Nuts can cause inflammation in the gut, so this seemed like a good strategy.


Eventually, I stopped eating most snacks, including the blue corn chips that I love.


Unfortunately, none of these changes had any impact. I was still feeling terrible. I considered taking a break from dairy, but I haven’t been able to find a substitute that works for me. I wondered whether I might need to change the filter in my water purifier; perhaps some bacteria had collected inside.


I was reaching a point of frustration, because I wasn’t sure what to try next. I fasted a few times, and despite feeling hungry, elimination of all food helped my stomach to settle down. Clearly, something I was still eating was causing the problem.


I sat down to watch television one evening and snacked on a bag of gluten-free pretzels. I switched to a gluten-free diet four years ago, and it was exciting to have a snack that I could still enjoy. When I stopped eating chips, I compensated by eating more of these pretzels.


After about five minutes later, I suddenly felt nauseous. That was it! The pretzels were bothering me. I have no idea what they put in the recipe that causes me problems, but something sure did. I stopped eating them immediately; a day later, I felt much better.


A lot of the health problems that we face come from things that we do willfully to ourselves, what we eat, what we drink, what we smoke, how much activity we undertake. We don’t realize the damage that some products do to us, because they seem benign, we have no reason to suspect otherwise. 


Many foods we eat out of habit. We eat what our families have always eaten. We go to lunch with our colleagues and order the same type of dishes. It might not dawn on us that we might be sensitive to something that doesn’t bother anyone else.


When we consciously evaluate what we eat and how it makes us feel, we can avoid or mitigate serious health problems such as obesity, allergies, diabetes, hypertension, heart disease, even cancer in some instance. Everything that we consume impacts how we feel, whether we think about it or not.



Wednesday, December 16, 2020

The Quiet Ones

This has been a difficult year. Everyone has had to deal with extraordinary challenges; many have suffered catastrophic losses. It can be a struggle to stay positive and keep going, especially then loud, powerful voices spread a negative message.


But remember this. For every problem, there's someone out there right now working hard to help resolve it. They are caring for the sick, feeding the hungry, teaching children, keeping store shelves stocked with good, keeping the power grid running, and performing many other essential services.


Those people aren't loud. They don't seek notoriety. They don't run to a microphone to offer comments or criticism. They just show up and do what they need to do.


American television personality Mr. Rogers urged his viewers to "look for the helpers," the quiet, caring, dedicated people who take care of others no matter how bad things get. Perhaps you are one of those helpers. If you are and you are feeling weary and under-appreciated, know that the whole world appreciates what you do. If you are not on the front lines, be sure to let those who are know how much they are appreciated, and then take inspiration from them when it's time for you to contribute what you have to give to the world.


Inspire each other. Help each other. Cheer someone up when they need a boost. And remember that the loud people are never as important as the quiet ones.



Tuesday, December 15, 2020

Inaugural Ball

Our next President and Vice President will be a guy from Pennsylvania and a lady from Oakland. Their inaugural ball should be called The Immaculate Reception.



Sunday, December 13, 2020

Break The Rules

Sometimes a situation comes along that is so unfair, so ridiculous, that it demands an extraordinary response. I understand the importance of following rules and customs, but there are times when the only righteous course of action requires breaking those rules in order to make things right and set the record straight.


I think that everyone knows what I’m talking about, and I’m sure that most of you agree. Therefore, I am asking you to contact your elected representatives and demand that no team from the NFC East be allowed to participate in the playoffs this year. They are an embarrassment to American football.


Contact the NFL and encourage them allow an extra NFC wild card team this year in order to prevent one of the greatest injustices in the history of sports. Losers should not be allowed to advance to the playoffs. 


;-)



Stop The Squeal

No, Trump, you did not “win Georgia big.” You did not “win Pennsylvania big.” Biden defeated you in PA by more votes than your margin over Clinton, and you were happy to claim that victory. You lost by more than 7,000,000 votes. You are the first elected president in 88 years to lose to a challenger in an election without a strong third-party candidate. You are the most corrupt and corrosive leader that this country has ever seen. Stop whining. Stop inciting division and violence, pack up your golf clubs, and go home. It’s time for the nation to heal, and your pathetic, self-serving antics are not helping.



Friday, December 11, 2020

Of Courts And Kings

If courts are going to decide the outcome of elections, why bother holding the election in the first place? Why waste time and effort registering voters, printing ballots, hiring poll workers, and tabulating and certifying the results? Just put the two candidates in front of a panel of judges and have them decide who the winner is.


Of course, if the judges picked Biden over Trump in this most recent election, mobs of angry fascists would show up at their houses. Fascist don’t really want the courts to decide who wins any more than they want the voters to decide who wins. They simply want to ensure that their candidate comes out on top. The courts are just a convenient tool when the popular vote doesn’t go they way they want it to.


So, forget about standing in line to vote in the next election. Use that time to go for a nice walk. Use a copy of the Constitution to clean up after your dog. If the will of the people no longer decides our political future, Jeffersonian democracy is dead. We will have ended up back where we started, ruled by a greedy, lawless king.



Chances

Forget about the chances you’ve missed. Prepare for the ones that are coming.



Tuesday, December 8, 2020

Monday, December 7, 2020

December 7, 2020

I watched a lot of World War I movies when I was a kid. Films that were made during and just after the war were still popular on television, and the studios continued to make new ones.


From the perspective of a child, the war seemed like something that had happened in the distant past, but it hadn’t been that long at all. I was born less than nineteen years after the attack on Pearl Harbor. To put that time frame in perspective, it’s been more than nineteen years since the 9/11 attacks.


The Great War was still fresh in the minds of anyone old enough to have lived through it. Everyone had at least one family member who served in the war. Every American of my parents’ generation remembered the hardships, the rationing, the news from abroad. The war touched every aspect of life.


By the time I became aware of WWII, a lot had happened, the Cold War, the Korean War, the dawn of the Space Age. It’s natural for children to lack an awareness of history, especially when current times are changing rapidly. I was an adult before I was able to appreciate how short a time had passed between my own life and the greatest conflict in human history.


Thanks to all who served an sacrificed in the defense of liberty. Thanks to all who fought and died to defeat the greatest threat that humanity has every thrust upon itself.


December 7, 2020



Friday, December 4, 2020

National Leadership In The Era Of The Pandemic

On Wednesday of this week, Covid-19 killed more people in the US than the 9/11 attacks. That is a staggering one-day death toll, and yesterday was even worse. Hospitalizations continue to rise. Deaths will follow.


What is Trump doing about it?

- National mask mandate? No

- Expanded testing and tracing? No

- Defense Production Act to restock PPE supplies? No

- Public addresses to encourage social distancing? No

- Economic relief for workers and businesses? No

- Extension of unemployment benefits? No

- Financial support to hospitals? No

- Financial support to school districts? No

- Financial support to food banks? No

- National vaccination strategy? No

- Ranting about the election? Yes

- Pardoning criminals? Yes

- Firing people and settling scores? Yes

- Baseless allegations of fraud? Yes

- Weekly golf trips? Yes

- Scamming supporters with a deceitful ‘election fund’ that enriches him personally? Yes



Wednesday, December 2, 2020

Locked Box

Yes

I’m still shocked

But

Those feelings are

Locked

In a box

On a shelf

In an old dusty cabin

Deep in the woods

In a place 

That nobody knows


I try to do mostly positive things

While the cold wind blows

And the lock

On that box

Rusts shut



Copyright © 2020 Daniel R. South

All Rights Reserved



Post Jesus

Jesus will never shame you into sharing posts about Jesus.

Spammers will.



Monday, November 30, 2020

Writing Blog And Future Plans

Some years ago, I started a blog to capture short bits of writing. It was a good fit for my style of expression. I like to work on projects that I can finish quickly. I can access the blog from anywhere using my mobile devices. I type faster than I write by hand, so my ideas flow more freely.


I don’t have to worry about carrying a notebook. I can edit what I write without wasting paper, and everything is archived on cloud storage that will probably last longer than I will. The platform that I use is free, so there’s not even a cost associated with this venture.


I found that I was finishing about two hundred fifty posts a year. Eventually, I had the idea to try to push myself to see if I could write an entry for each day of the year. I met this goal in 2018 and promptly swore that I would never do it again.


Moment is powerful, however, and once you get in the swing of a project, it’s hard to turn it off. The next January, I wrote thirty-one entries, much to my surprise, and then another twenty-eight in February, and so on. I was well on my way to logging more than 365 entries for the second straight year.


This has been a fascinating exercise. It has pushed me to grow and mature as a writer, I have written lots of things that never would have existed if I hadn’t committed myself to meeting a monthly quota.


I won’t claim that all of this writing is good. Some of it is dull, some is corny and embarrassing. Some is frivolous fill that I cranked out as the end of the month drew near. But there are some gems in there that I look bad on with price. For that reason, the exercise has been worthwhile.


I have now completed the eleventh month of the third year. (This entry doesn’t count. I have already fulfilled my quote for November.) I’ll finish it off with thirty-one new entries in December.


Next year, however, I am going to give myself a break. I feel that it’s time to set the monthly quota aside. Every project has an opportunity cost of time and energy, and I would like to spend my time on some new projects in the coming year. When 2021 rolls around, I’m planning to write more casually. Whether I write five entries in a month or fifty or zero will depend entirely on how I feel and what I want to express.


Thanks as always for reading my thoughts. I feel a great sense of joy when they are well received.


DRS

30 November 2020



Sore Loser

Okay, Sore Loser
Pack your toys and call your mom
Time for you to go


Remember It All

Some people tell us

To forget the past

The awkward mistakes

The bitter heartbreaks

The embarrassing moments

That rethinking can’t change

The terrible jobs

The friends that we’ve lost

Just throw it all out

It’s not worth

The emotional cost


But I don’t think that’s

The right strategy

I don’t think it’s helpful

To pretend we can’t see

The trials that shaped us

Made us who we are now

The pain that brought wisdom

And sense to our brow


All we’ve accomplished

Came as we learned

The most precious lessons

Were seared when we burned

Why hide from the moments

That forced us to grow?

If life took no effort

How much would we know?


So, I would suggest

That you remember it all

The tackles

The touchdowns

The fumbles 

The falls

Every last time

You handled the ball

No matter what happened

No judgment at all

Think back on all

That you can recall

The way that if felt

The way that it smelled

The greats things that you once could do


One day

You’ll be old

And weak and alone

You’ll no longer enjoy

The things that you’ve done

All that you’ll have

Is time to look back

On the things you did

The places you went

The adventures you had

The people you met

Your triumphs and failures

And everyday treasures

‘Cause in your waning years

Those old memories

Will seems more precious

Than ever before

Even the ones that haunted you then

Will seem special now

When you look back at them

And think 

You know, it wasn’t that bad

It wasn’t that bad at all!

And you will be glad

For all that you had

When you know in your heart

That it won’t be coming back


Copyright © 2020 Daniel R. South

All Rights Reserved



Creative Stew

Everything we create

Starts out in the mind

As something we see

Or hear, smell, or feel


But making it real

Bringing it out in the air

For others to share

Is a challenging task


When buried inside

Most ideas are chaotic

Whimsically organized

Mercurial and quixotic


A bubbling brew

Of well-meaning stew

That must be seasoned just right

Before we serve it to you


The viewer

The listener

The reader

The thinker


The wearer

The buyer

The taster

The drinker


That mysterious process

Is the suspension bridge

That every creative

Must build and then cross


The better we build it

The stronger we make it

The more we produce

And the less that gets lost



Mask Compliance

Do people who refuse to wear masks also refuse to use toilet paper? If you’re going to spread disease, why not do it from both ends?



Sunday, November 29, 2020

Let ‘er Rip!

I used to work with a guy who was knowledgeable and quick thinking, but not particularly cautious. Whenever we planned a change to one of our computer systems, he would blurt out, “That’s easy! You just have to...” followed by whatever idea popped into his head immediately.


The guy’s proposals were generally sound, but his rushed conclusions didn’t inspire confidence. He wasn’t good at thinking about what could go wrong or what might be impacted by a change. He rarely suggested a method for verifying that things would work as expected or a blackout plan if things went awry.


We realized quickly that his off the cuff solutions were merely a starting point for our planning process. He was a subject matter expert and we had to depend on his insights, but we knew that we had to think things through rather than counting on his word that everything would be alright.


 As a team, we would discuss the process in detail, identify all known impacts and contingencies, and in the process build a detailed, step by step plan that listed every task, who would do it, who would verify it, how the handoffs would be managed, and how we would back out if necessary.


Writing the plan was usually my job. In addition to being deliberate and detail oriented, I’m highly pessimistic when computers are involved. I don’t believe that something is going to work until I see it demonstrated.


The final version of the plan was always more intricate than the guy’s proposed solution.


As a team, we always managed to get the job done, but it was never as “easy” or “simple” as this guy would have had us believe. It always took a skilled team to make it happen, and their actions had to be carefully coordinated.


The guy never learned from this process. He never developed the discipline of thinking through problems carefully. The next time we needed to resolve a problem, he’d blurt out another quickly hatched solution. Luckily, over time, we stopped trusting his judgment.


We even came up with a nickname for the guy. We used to call him “Let ‘er Rip!” as in “why don’t you ask Let ‘er Rip how he would do it?” or “give that project to Let ‘er Rip, and he’ll have it done in five minutes.” It was a good reminder to avoid letting the guy do anything hands on before first talking through the details.



Sneaky Little Man

Walking through the park

I saw a sneaky little man

With his sneaky little camera

And his sneaky stocking cap

Standing motionless

Remaining anonymous

Trying to be invisible

But I saw him -

I always see them -

So I stood and waited

For him to take his shots

I took time to clear my nose

Some gross repulsive snots

With that noise he noticed me

And motioning politely

Suggested that I might pass

But I didn't budge

I thought, "No way, dick!

As soon as I pass

You'll take a click

And I'm not in the mood

To play that game

Today or any day"

Determined to stay

I stood my ground

Until he got mad

And stomped away

I shook my head and mused

“There must be a full moon today!”



Dream Big And Execute Small

Dream big and execute small.


Maybe you dream of directing a movie. You know that you can do it. You have a unique vision and a compelling story to tell, but nobody wants to put up the funding that you would need in order to produce a full-length film.


You can sit around grumbling and cursing about how unfair the world is and how your big opportunity is slipping by. You can spend your time schmoozing with insiders and hoping that someone will invest in you because you’re fun to hang out with. Or you can get busy by doing what you can accomplish now.


Make short films. Make a music video for a local group. Collaborate with other aspiring creatives who have the skills that you don’t possess.


If that’s too adventurous for where you are right now, invite some friends over and make funny videos using your cell phones. Do whatever you can to show the world that you have something special to offer.


Every project that you complete, large or small, will enhance your skill set, add to your résumé, and most importantly, increase your confidence. If the videos that you make with your friends grab attention, you’ll build a fan following. If your short films are inspired, they’ll get noticed by people who can help you move up to the next level.


Keep working. Keep striving to do better. As you improve, your luck improves.


Nothing good is going to happen if you sit around feeling sorry for yourself. Nothing’s going to happen while you waste time entertaining industry contacts who are happy to drink on your dime but don’t give a crap about you and your artistic vision, nothing except you ending up feeling used and demoralized.


Be proactive If you want to get somewhere, make things happen. The best way to make things happen by working within the limits of what you can do today, right now, not in some future dreamland where you have unlimited skills and resources.


Dream big and execute small. Get started today. Do what you can do right now.



Saturday, November 28, 2020

Needs Of The Heart

Happiness is doing what your heart needs to do.


Honesty is expressing what your heart needs to say.


Romance is requesting what your heart needs to feel.


Love is helping someone else find what they need.



Friday, November 27, 2020

Prepare To Be Impressed

Some years ago, a crew of workers dug up the streets around my office to replace underground pipes and wires. The same crew worked every day; I saw them when I went out for lunch or a smoothie.


The backhoe operator was particularly impressive. Day after day, I marveled as this powerful machine picked up and moved a variety of objects with remarkable precision.


Nudge a large metal plate two inches to the left? Easy!


Lower a bundle of pipes delicately into a trench where workers were standing? Piece of cake!


I had never seen heavy equipment operated so skillfully.


You might be interested to know that the operator of this machine, the person who guided it with such amazing expertise and accuracy, was a woman. I don’t know where she got her training, but her skills were phenomenal.


Hire a woman for the job, then stand back and prepare to be impressed.



Tuesday, November 24, 2020

Boredom

Boredom signals that your usual routine is no longer satisfying. You crave something new. What are you going to try next?


Fake It Until You Make It

A motivational speaker urged his audience to “fake it until you make it.” He said that before you can land a big opportunity, you have to look, talk, and act like you belong in that role. If you can to this convincingly, people will take you seriously and offer you chances to prove yourself.


I decided that he was probably right. For instance, if you want to be funny, but you’re not, it might help if you try to look funny. If you can get people to laugh when they see you coming down the street, you’ll know that you’re well on your way to success.



Monday, November 23, 2020

Delays In Transition

It’s clear to anyone who’s been paying attention that Mr. Trump will do just about anything to hold onto the presidency.


- For months, he made vague and unsubstantiated claims about voter fraud.

- Since Election Day, he and his surrogates have claimed that the election was stolen.

- His legal team filed dozens of lawsuits. Each was dismissed due to a lack of evidence.

- His surrogates pushed conspiracy theories in outrageous press conferences.

- He has attempted to convince local and state officials to delay certification of election results.

- He has tried to convince state legislatures to ignore the voters and appoint loyal electors.


Whether this strategy ultimately succeeds, it’s dangerous in several ways.


American elections have never been perfect, but for centuries they have served as the global standard for representative democracy. It’s a standard that much of the world tried to emulate and unscrupulous authoritarians tried to avoid. It’s going to be difficult for the US to promote democracy abroad now that they world has witnessed such a blatantly undemocratic power grab occurring within our own electoral system.


Here in the US, Mr. Trump’s win at all costs strategy has weakened our democratic institutions and has set a precedent that power-hungry politicians could leverage in attempts to undermine future elections.


But the delays that have resulted from Mr. Trump’s challenges don’t just set a dangerous precedent. They represented a clear and present danger to our national security as the Biden team has been blocked from receiving critical security briefings. Further, these politicsl delays will ultimately impact the rollout of Covid-19 vaccines which the Biden Administration will ultimately deliver.


Perhaps the most astonishing revelation is that Mr. Trump doesn’t seem to have any interest in performing the responsibilities of the position that he so desperately wants to retain. He’s not managing the pandemic. He’s not urging Congress to provide financial relief to citizens and businesses (or municipalities) that could keep them going during the months that it will take to distribute the vaccine. He’s not helping to secure the production of tests or personal protective equipment for medical professionals. All he seems to want to do with his time is golf and watch television. 


Mr. Trump, you can do those things as a private citizen. It’s time to get out of the way and let the country move forward.



Sunday, November 22, 2020

Advice From An Old Farmer

I had a flashback to a memory from my early teens. My Mom and I had driven to a local farm to buy some hay. Mom had a few horses in those days; we were constantly buying hay to keep up with their healthy appetites.


After we loaded the hay into our pickup truck, the farmer chatted with Mom for a few minutes, and then he turned to me. He said that he wanted to offer me some advice.


I remember the moment clearly because it was so unusual. The farmer wasn’t a big man. He was no taller than I was at the time, and I wasn’t fully grown. He had a kind, round face and twinkling eyes. He was balding, and the hair that he did have was cut quite short. He wore blue jean overalls as most men of his profession did in those days. He was about fifty, but to me he seemed ancient. One of his teeth was out of line with the rest.


“You’re going to reach a point where you’ll have to decide whether to be a boy or a man. My advice to you is to stay a boy for as long as you can.”


“Okay, I’ll try,” I said awkwardly. I really didn’t understand what he meant, but I didn’t want to seem ungrateful by asking him to clarify.


I thought about his words quite often in the coming years and months. The whole incident seemed so surprising; I really didn’t know what to make of it.


The farmer’s words seemed to suggest that I continue to cherish the things that I had held dear as a child: games, toys, light-hearted entertainment, and joyful family interactions. I didn’t feel that advice was particularly valuable given that I’m already a sentimental person. I try to stay in touch with my past and appreciate the most innocent of pleasures.


Thinking back on his words all these years later, now that I am older than the farmer was when he offered his advice, I believe that I finally understand what he was trying to tell me.


“Before you take on responsibilities that will determine your future, before you make commitments that will limit what you can do and where you can go, see the world and sample what it has to offer.


“You’re only young once. Enjoy the freedom that youth affords. Go places. Try things. Take risks and have adventures. If you don’t, if you skip this important time in your life, you’ll regret missing out on those pleasures and those adventures. If you make big decisions before you understand all of what life has to offer, you might end up in a place where you really don’t want to be.”



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