Showing posts with label Women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Women. Show all posts

Saturday, May 11, 2019

New York Minute 145 - Extraordinary Challenges

She looks to be in her seventies. She walks slowly with the help of a cane. She walks with her son, a large man of about fifty who is stricken with a severe developmental disability. She does her best to keep him calm, but he is agitated. His voice shrieks loudly when he tries to talk, and his arms flail in spastic chaos. 


She speaks to him in a soft voice as they walk slowly down the sidewalk. She has to take him with her to the store. It’s not safe to leave him at home by himself. He needs her care. He needs her everlasting love.


This mother’s day weekend, please remember those families who struggle with extraordinary challenges. Be aware that any person you meet could be struggling with burdens that you cannot imagine.


And while we’re at it, let’s honor the constant, selfless sacrifice of all mothers, strong, loving women who rise to every challenge and overcome every burden day after day, year after year, as they care for their children. No one is as dedicated. No one is as devoted. No one is as determined, and no one else can do what they do.



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Wednesday, April 10, 2019

Class

Dear Lady, Dear Lady 
When choosing your clothing 
Don’t show us your ass 
Show us some class 

We don’t need fine details 
About private features 
One assumes it’s quite splendid 
To those who befriend it 

But we might enjoy knowing 
That in addition to looking 
So fetching and lovely 
And chatting so cheerfully 
Smiling so sweetly 
And laughing so freely 
That there’s more than meets the eye 

How will you show 
That you’ve a head on your shoulders 
A mind of your own 
With thoughts on what matters 
A strong sense of self-worth 
That defies idle chatter 
And rises above 
Dull social encounters?

Show us 
Dear Lady 
That you bring to the table 
Than a splash 
Or a dash 
Of giggles and cleavage 
And couture panache 

Show us your manners
Show us some class 
If that is not too much to ask


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Thursday, October 20, 2016

Women

Women are
So beautiful
So capable
So insightful
So wise
So passionate
So appreciative
So caring
So kind
So creative
So expressive
So supportive
So devoted
So courageous
So resilient
So alluring
So deliriously fun!
Women are
So special
So amazing in every way
Every single one of them!



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Saturday, October 17, 2015

Times Have Changed

I noticed evidence of a major cultural shift earlier this week when I was invited to have drinks with some colleagues.

I don't visit bars frequently, so when I do go out, I tend to notice details about the room, the staff, and the other patrons.

This time I noticed how popular tattoos have become with women. If you see a young lady whose outfit shows some skin, that skin probably has a tattoo on it. 

I saw tattoos on necks, shoulders, arms, and backs. Some were small, and some covered a large area.

Back in the 1980's when I went out to clubs to see live music with friends, we never encountered women with tattoos. Tattoos were worn by men, and not even by all men.

Ink was a masculine badge of honor for guys who had endured tough situations - serving in the armed forces, spending time in jail or in a counterculture like motorcycle gangs. Most women never would have considered getting a tattoo.

And yet, in 2015, it's unusual to find a young woman who doesn't have ink on her body.

When did we make that leap? When did tattoos become a desirable fashion accessory for professional women, housewives, and ladies with day jobs? When did average, unremarkable people convince themselves that skin ink would make them seem more interesting or alluring?









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Sunday, February 8, 2015

What Makes Men Attractive To Women?

The Huffington Post published a light-hearted editorial listing eleven traits that supposedly make men attractive to women. Not physical traits, but vaguely defined qualities such as intelligence, sensitivity, and confidence.

Articles like this are fun to read in a guilty pleasures sort of way. I would like to believe that women really do appreciate these qualities, but I question whether women would notice a man with these qualities at a typical social gathering.

We've all been to our fair share of receptions and cocktail parties. We've all watched the women there gravitate toward a predictable set of archetypes: Expensive Suit And Watch Guy, Arrogant Fast Talker Guy, Tanned Workout Guy, Portly But Hilarious Guy, and Life Of The Party Guy.

If Eleven Traits That Women Love Guy doesn't know anyone at the event, he'll end up engaging in a series of safe conversations with men. They'll talk about business, politics, sports, pop culture, current events, and the latest scientific discoveries.

But unless he's introduced to a lady, or he decides to make a bold move in an attempt to get a particular lady's attention, Eleven Traits Guy will remain invisible for most of the evening.



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Friday, October 10, 2014

The Advantages of Marriage for Men

Every man should consider the benefits of marriage. You never know when it might be handy to have a detailed, cross referenced, fully indexed and painstakingly organized catalog of every mistake that you have ever made. 


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Friday, January 3, 2014

The One Thing That I Know About Women

We all have known exceptions, but in general, women invest considerable time, thought, and effort on their appearance. Any given fellow, therefore, can increase his chances of being noticed by the opposite sex by giving the impression that he, too, has crafted his appearance thoughtfully and deliberately.

It's not a particularly challenging assignment. Many men dress as though they selected their garments at random. A small amount of effort, perhaps selecting one interesting and comment-worthy item to wear - a nice sweater or a stylish pair of shoes, for instance - can stimulate the female interest level significantly.

Of course, being noticed by a woman does not mean that she'll necessarily want to sleep with you. That's an entirely different calculus and one that I have resigned myself never to understand with any degree of certainty.


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In Passing

We can take two lessons from the sudden passing of Senator Lindsay Graham. First, we never know how much time we have left. Focus on what...