25 Things That Your Man Isn’t Telling You
1. He wants you to be happy.
2. When you’re smiling, he assumes that everything is okay.
3. If something is bothering you, he would like you to tell him, clearly and calmly.
4. He is willing to talk, help, even change, but he needs to understand the issue.
5. He hates it when you expect him to know what’s wrong without saying anything.
6. He worries more than you know, about work, money, parents, the future.
7. He worries about losing you. He worries about the men in your life.
8. He doesn’t mention his concerns, because he was taught to “tough it out” no matter what happens.
9. He conflates vulnerability with weakness.
10. He is not going to show weakness. Ever.
11. Like everyone else on the planet, he is insecure.
12. He wants you to be proud of him.
13. If you don’t openly express admiration for his career, his skills, or accomplishments, he feels like a failure.
14. When you make disparaging comments, even as a joke, it diminishes his feelings of self worth.
15. When another woman expresses admiration, he feels elated.
16. He works best when he can concentrate on one thing at a time.
17. He finds interruptions aggravating.
18. If you have to interrupt him, and it’s not an emergency, do it gently and give him a moment to switch his focus over to your concerns.
19. This context switch is harder for men. He appreciates your patience.
20. When you need his help, ask in the form of a favor.
21. Tell him how happy you will be when he completes your request. Exaggerate a little.
22. He wants be your champion. Give him opportunities to do so.
23. He doesn’t want to be the only one who initiates sex.
24. He’s thrilled when you start things in the bedroom.
25. But on some nights, he just wants to go to sleep.
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