Monday, June 29, 2020

Overcoming A Weakness

If you want to learn a lot in a short amount of time, try to improve in an area where you’re not doing well. Figure out what’s not working and why, and then come up with an approach to fix it. Put your plan into action and monitor the results. 


Your first attempt might not work; you might end up right back where you started. The problem will still exist, but you’ll have a better understanding of why it’s happening. Give it some more thought, come up with another approach, and give that a try. If that doesn’t work, try something else.


The process will be challenging, and it might take a while, but you’re going to learn a lot as you work through this. If you continue to work diligently, you’ll succeed where you once struggled. It will require patience, effort, and commitment, but you can do it. Never lose sight of the fact that you can get to where you want to be if you’re willing to work for it.



Sunday, June 28, 2020

No Guarantees

There are no guarantees, only desire and action and hope.


Chill Out

He was a frail, sickly kid, all of five feet six inches tall. He was shy and socially awkward, but his family recalled that he was warm and supportive and always knew how to make them laugh. 


He was gentle and kind. On his days off, he took his violin to the animal rescue shelter and played music for the kittens. 


One evening, he went to the convenience store to buy something for his little brother. He wore a ski mask, but the clerk was not alarmed. She recognized him. He was a regular customer. He suffered from anemia, and the mask helped him stay warm. It also helped him overcome his fear of strangers.


He didn’t do anything wrong. He was not suspected of committing a crime. He had not threatened or menaced anyone; to do so would be completely at odds with his gentle nature.


As he walked home from the store that evening listening to music in his headphones, a man saw him walking. The man called 911 to report a “suspicious” person. When the the 911 operator asked if the caller had seen any weapons, he said no.


Three police officers arrived promptly and ordered the awkward young man in the ski mask to stop. He explained that he was walking home. The police officers grabbed him and held him without provocation. They didn’t question him first, and to their knowledge, he had committed no crime. They accused him of “acting suspicious.”


Suspicion is in the mind of the beholder. He was different. He was socially awkward. His attire was unusual. 


The young man panicked and struggled. The police subdued him with a choke hold. The young man passed out briefly. When he came to, he was terrified. He didn’t understand why the police were hurting him. He explained who he was. He offered to show them his ID. He threw up a few times and told the officers that he was having trouble breathing. The officers told him to “chill out.”


The officers called for “more units” to come to the scene. Apparently, this small, frail man was more than three trained, armed police officers could handle. They also called an ambulance. When the EMTs arrived, the police asked them to sedate this whimpering, desperate, anemic kid with an injection of ketamine, a powerful sedative. 


Under the influence of the drug, this gentle young man’s heart stopped. The EMTs applied CPR. Over the next few days, the young man suffered a number of health crises that left him brain dead. His family took him off of life support, and he slipped away.


Think about your own family. Think about the families of people you know. Think of someone in one of those families who is a little bit different, someone who is gentle and kind but presents themselves in a way that strangers might find initially confusing. 


Imagine that someone in the community saw this person that you know walking down the street and called 911 to report a “suspicious character.”


Imagine the police arriving and subduing that person with a brutal choke hold without first talking to them to understand who they are and assess whether they posed a threat.


Imagine the police taking the extraordinary measure to have the person sedated with a powerful chemical despite the fact that they are not doctors and possess no understanding of the person’s medical history.


Imagine a family losing a kind, loving person forever due to a callous and completely unnecessary use of force.


(In memory of Elijah McClain)



Saturday, June 27, 2020

Challenge

A challenge is life’s greatest teacher.



Statues and Monuments

125,000 Americans die from a virus, and the president takes action to save statues.


Russian Bounty On American Troops

The Russian government paid the Taliban to kill American troops.


Let that sink in. Russia offered bounties on the heads of American soldiers and marines serving in Afghanistan, and they have actually paid out money for confirmed kills.


We have witnessed some shocking events in recent years, but I don’t recall anything that rises to this level. The question is, now that we know, what are we going to do about it?


Mr. Trump was briefed on this issue in March of this year. His advisers presented him with a menu of retaliatory actions from a stern letter to the Kremlin to the implementation of new sanctions. Mr. Trump did nothing. He opted not to retaliate. Instead, he handed Mr. Putin a huge gift by announcing that the US would withdraw ALL of its troops from Germany, a move that will provide Russia with an enormous strategic advantage in the region. 


One question remains. What are WE going to do about it in November?



Friday, June 26, 2020

Seen On The Highway

Seen on the highway:


Bumper sticker on a minivan: I USED TO BE COOL


People standing around a car surrounded by tall weeds after it skidded from the left lane, across the right lane and the shoulder and down a steep embankment. 


A guy riding a Harley in the rain in a T-shirt and jeans, no helmet or coveralls. (He was wearing sunglasses.) A small trunk on the back read: N.Y.P.D.



Fantasy Option

In life we deal 

With what we have 

And what we can afford 

To lose


In a fantasy 

Every option is free 



I’m Proud Of You

I’m proud of everyone who is taking the pandemic seriously, of all of the individuals and businesses who are doing everything that they can to keep themselves and others safe. I’m proud of everyone who implements and follows social distancing protocols. I’m proud of everyone who wears a mask for their own protection and for the greater good. I am proud of every individual, every business, and every community that has sacrificed to keep this horrible disease from spreading. Keep up the good work. The fight is not over, but we can survive and prosper if we all work together.



It’s Up To You

It won’t happen until you do it, exist until you create it, or improve until you fix it.



In Passing

We can take two lessons from the sudden passing of Senator Lindsay Graham. First, we never know how much time we have left. Focus on what...